1)Briefly describe Dan and Terri's story and
their family.
1. Dan
and Terri are a gay couple who have a son together named D.J. They were both
bullied in high school for being gay. But
found that once they left high school things got much better. They are trying
to send a message to youth in LGBTQ that it really does get easier after high
school.
2) What is their relationship with their
families of origin (parents and siblings).
2. Dan grew up in a Catholic family where no
one was gay. Dan’s parents weren’t
thrilled when he came out but eventually accepted it and welcomed Terri into
their family. Terri’s family also tried
to stop the bullying at his school but nothing was done. Now both families
accept them and embrace them totally.
3) What family have they created?
3. Terri and Dan are married and they have
adopted a son together named D.J.
Believe it or not only a few short decades ago
there were no representative data on same-sex couples or gay teens. Now the
U.S. Census counts same-sex cohabiting and married couples, 36 states allow gay
marriage, and the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) has collected data on gay
teens greater likelihood to experience violent acts against them as well as
greater likelihood of committing suicide.
4) Describe a statistic regarding the
likelihood of gay and transgender experiencing violent acts.
4. 14% to 31% of gay and lesbian students and 17% to 32% of
bisexual students had been forced to have sexual intercourse at some point in
their lives. This is a statistic of the likelihood of gay and transgender experiencing
violence.
5) What is the likelihood that gay and
transgender teens attempt suicide.
5. The likelihood that gay and transgender
teens attempt suicide are twice as likely to attempt suicide compared to their
heterosexual counterpart. A study on 55
transgendered teens stated that 25% of them had thoughts to attempt suicide.
6) According to the website, what are two
things a school can do to prevent violence and/or suicide against
gay/transgender teens.
6. Schools can encourage respect for all
students and prohibit bullying and harassment. Schools can also set up “safe
spaces” which are places like counselors rooms or classrooms where students of
LGBTQ can go to receive support from the school staff.
7) If you were a teacher of a school administrator
or counselor, briefly describe a program or action(s) you might create to
prevent violence against gay/transgender or straight teens. Perhaps consider
how you might unite gay and straight teens to work toward positive change.
7. If I were a teacher I would take action to
prevent violence against gay/transgender teens by making LBGTQ apart of the
everyday school environment. I would have a club where the LGBTQ could go to
seek additional support but I would try and also make the LGBTQ apart of everyone’s
everyday life. I think this would be
important because it will start to be routinized in to the schedules of
everyone in the school and it will make members of the LGBTQ less of an “outcast”
because it will involve everyone in the school. A way I would implement the
LGBTQ becoming apart of the daily life of the school would be to have everyone
bring in a fact about bullying of an LGBTQ teen. I would make a board and the
students could add a new fact every day. I would encourage all the students
regardless of their sexual orientation to work together. I also hope that by
time I am a teacher their will be no bullying of any one from the LGBTQ because
it is finally starting to be so widely accepted.